Personal dilemma

[slvrsteele]

Hello everyone.
I have this personal dilemma and I would like your input on it cause I am totally undecided about how to manage it.
Question is like this:
If someone you know and trust is proven to be an initiator of hate and defamatory campaign against you on SM what would you do?

 

[BonJoe]

Welp, I would question the proof

 

[slvrsteele]

Welp, I would question the proof

1000% unquestionable proof. It was proven with images and short videos of person's computer.

 

[BonJoe]

1000% unquestionable proof.

I would crush his existence then. No need to be nice to backstabbing snakes.

 

[GambitSteel]

Hello everyone.
I have this personal dilemma and I would like your input on it cause I am totally undecided about how to manage it.
Question is like this:
If someone you know and trust is proven to be an initiator of hate and defamatory campaign against you on SM what would you do?

1.- Evaluate the possible causes of their actions (See to what extent you are responsible for it)
2.- Talk to the person and ask why? And for what? he/she did it (beyond slander, of course)
3.- If you are not responsible, tell him/her to stop doing it or you will have to look for alternatives

Sometimes people do stupid things just out of anger, many times talking and expressing what each one thinks can be solved

If he/she is a person you appreciate, you cannot congratulate him/her for that, but conflicts serve to show that there are things to improve, and if you want to keep him/her, the best thing is to fix things

Even if you are not very happy with him or her for a while, but it is better than losing contact with someone if you appreciate it

That is my personal opinion

 

[phpCore]

If it were me, I'd put it in the closet, I've already been there. I simply tore up his form, now I even forgot what he looked like.

 

[DatDudeUpStairs]

That depends my man:
1) Find the cause of it:
Every action has a cause, it can be found by the date of the first slandering or it can be found in the comments on the SM. if there is no solid reason then say your goodbye's to her/him as they are not worth your time,
2) If you were like stuck-together twins:
Confront them directly about the slander, what has gotten into you. If they by any chance deny the truth and still want to avoid it, just drop the matter as they are not quite sure about the matter and that's just how they want to go with the flow. less interaction means less headaches for you.
3) If they are your partner of life: confront them directly and if that doesn't work out you can go with therapy. there may be a hidden trauma that both of you are unaware of.

Stay healthy and avoid toxic people.

 

[vinu]

Don't get angry, just calm

Meet in person ask why

It may or may not be true, but how you handle matters